GLOSSARY

Conditional Alignment

Values that are real but fragile. They appear when it's easy, but disappear under stress. Intent is present, but follow-through wavers.

Understanding Conditional Alignment

Conditional alignment means the values are genuine — but they don't hold under pressure. When things get hard, stressful, or inconvenient, the values slip.

In this pattern: - Values present when convenient - Stress reveals gaps between words and actions - Good intentions without consistent follow-through - Excuses replace accountability

This is not malice. It is immaturity. Still, inconsistency creates confusion and erodes trust over time.

Examples

"I believe in honesty — but this situation is different."

"I meant to, but..."

"I'm working on it."