Two Nervous Systems.
One Question.
Is it safe to connect—or do I need to protect myself.
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Connection
Empathy is online, thinking is flexible, and impact can be named and repaired.
Choose Your Path
Two ways to explore—depending on what you need.
Understand yourself through the lens of your nervous system.
- ●Recognize your own patterns
- ●Understand why reactions shift
- ●See relationships more clearly
- ●Find language for what you're experiencing
Accessible. Personal. No jargon.
The technical architecture for professionals.
- ●Five-Axis Framework specifications
- ●Cross-theoretical validation
- ●State-appropriate intervention principles
- ●Scaling analysis: individuals → systems
Technical. Comprehensive. Research-grounded.
Why This Matters
Understanding the gradient changes how you see yourself—and everyone else.
Compassion becomes possible
That reactive version of them isn't their "true self" revealed. It's a nervous system in a particular position—just like yours.
Conflict becomes readable
When you can see where someone is on the gradient, their behavior stops being mysterious. Or personal. It becomes information.
Connection becomes a choice
You can't meet someone in Connection from Control. Seeing both positions—yours and theirs—changes what's actually possible.
"The same person can look like a different person in a different state."
Understanding this changes everything.